day starts. it's saturday, a few days after the breakup so i talk to misty in the morning and we decide that since her man ty aka: toad63 is outta town, so we decide that going to the last supper club would be a good idea for some girly fun. so we decide to give jessica a call & see if she would like to go, and apparently it's a yes. so i go to a bbq w/my friend regina in tspot [aka: tacoma] & around 730 jessica calls me...
her: when are you going to pick me up?
me: well, what time is it?
me: well... we have a few hours before it's 10 (last chance to get into the club before they start charging cover)
her: well, i have no money to get into the club if we don't make it there on time
me: don't worry, i'll pick you up around 930, we should make it on time...
her: [odd silence]
me: well i can pick u up around 915 & then we'd make it there for sure
so i go home around 845, & start getting ready. then i get a call, it's misty informing me that jess has been calling her & buggin her about when we're gonna be leaving & when we'll be picking her up. so misty & i decide it might be a good idea if she gets jess, and i get them from her place. so about 915 i pick jess & misty up from misty's place & we head down to seattle. on the way jess tells me that she has an interview at sears, but then proceeds to explain that ian [her b/f] doesn't want her to take it b/c she could hold out for something better. so i tell her that it doesn't matter, a job's a job and you can always look for something else while employed there. well... the rest of the trip to seattle [mind you this takes about 20mintues to get there since i'm driving] was spent in relative silence.
we get to the club... & find out that they changed the cover charge time to 930, so i cover jess [since i have cash] and she pays for a few of my drinks. which leaves me owing her some $$ since she paid for it on credit. we started dancing around 11, and it had been a few hours & quite possibly two or three drinks later and jess pipes up...
"we have to leave NOW"
misty & i are just like...uhhh... what's she talking about?!?!!
"i have a job interview at 10 tomorrow, we need to leave NOW"
well, misty & i weren't informed about leaving early prior to our arrival to the club & were thus confused & taken aback to her quite spontaneous demand that we leave at the moment. so we told her that we were there to dance & have some fun. she tried to tell us that this was the first time ever that we wanted to stay at a club until closing [2am] we managed to inform her that every time we visted her at pullman we stayed out until at least 3 or 4 am.
well.... she didn't want to hear that. she started screaming at us.. in the middle of the club that she needed to leave NOW and that we were being selfish. [mind you i had just broken up w/leigh] so we tell her to keep her panties on & we'll leave eventually. well... she would go away, and then come back... repeatedly... yelling & crying at us telling that she needs to go. well.... it got to the point where she wanted some of the ciggs outta my purse, which was in coat check. & since she didn't have the ticket she wanted to get it from me so she could smoke some ciggs from my purse. i basically told her to f-off b/c 'who bought the ciggs?' no.. u didn't, misty did. so just chill. [mind u the night before jess stayed at mistys house & watched movies (which misty paid for) & coaxed misty to stay up late even tho misty had work the next morning at 8]... so jess got even more upset & told us that she was going to take a bus home.
i told her that i'd like to see her figure out which bus to take home. well... eventually she said she was leaving & going to call her dad to have him come & pick her up... from downtown seattle, which is 25 minutes away... & she doesn't exactly know what street the club is on to tell him to get there anyway.
so about 15 minutes later misty & i decide to leave.
i call her outside the club to see where she's at & if she wants a ride home. [cause i figure her dad ain't gonna get there until we're home anyway...] so she answers, i tell her we're across the street from the club, & if she wants a ride home she'll have to meet us.
well she comes walking across the street on the phone... with... guess.who.... IAN!!! she didn't seem to be so upset when she was talking with him... vs. when she was "talking" to us in the club she was bawling and screaming so that everyone around us could hear.
we get in the car & there proceeds to be wwIII in the backseat. ugh.
well... we didn't say much after a while, mainly b/c we were so fed up w/her 9yr old 'woe is me' b/s... dropped her off at her home and figured that if she was really sorry for what she had done she would apologize.
well, sunday rolls around & she calls. it's about 1145ish noonish & i don't answer. she leaves a message informing me that sears wants her to take a drug test & she needs to know how to pass it. well, since this was completely a self indulgent phone call i decide not to call her back. she didn't even act like anything had happened the night before.
a few days go by and she im's me saying that she's hurt about how we treated her, but she will admit to acting like a drunken brat. [mind you we only had 3 drinks] and that i should give her a call.
i don't respond. why should i? she's passing off her behaviour on alcohol.
so then a few days ago she posted on her journal, talking about her family, the fact that Ian is going to visit her next weekend, & that she's going out with a friend this weekend for her 21 run. then she says that she's failed her drug test & that she has no friends & wants to spend the summer in Indiana with her family.
i wonder why she has no friends. hmmm....?....
well, friday she calls misty & leaves a message [while misty is at work] wondering what she is doing this weekend & wanting to see if misty wants to hang out. hmm...
then today [saturday] she sees my sister at the movie theater & tells her "tell your sister to stop being mad & call me".
grrr... why doesn't she call?? i don't feel like i was in any wrong considering the fact that she didn't tell me
a) when we called & invited her
b) when we were in the car on the way to the club
c) walking on our way to the club
about her interview.
no, she decides to tell us when she wants to leave. nevermind the fact that she pulls up the statment that she doesn't like to dance. well... if you don't like to dance why did you come to the club with us... to dance?!?!!
so we think she should apologize to us. she acted like a child. i don't care if she says she was drunk. the fact is, is that she only had 3 drinks, and thinking about the previous weekend she wasn't even drunk until about 5 or 6 beers later. hmmmm.....
so the point is, we're frustrated with this round about b/s she's pulling on us, & we think she owes us a sincere apology. if these are the games she wants to play [calling us, but knowing full & well that we won't answer due to work, or that we won't respond to her im's b/c we have an away message] she is sadly mistaken.
this hurts. i've known her since 4th grade, misty has known her since 10th grade [& she has been one of the few friends misty has kept in touch with since then] we have been there for her thru her hard & good times...
point being. we feel as tho we deserve a sincere apology for her bahaviour. is that too much to ask??